All too often, a
couple reaches a lull in their relationship, based on the same stale sex
routine and exhausted techniques. As a man, you have the power to take charge
and change the way things are, with a little knowledge and confidence. It’s
time to show her that you are the best she’s ever had, and the best she’ll ever
have.
Leave Her a Message
Here’s a chance to get creative with leaving voicemails.
Your woman’s voicemail is the perfect opportunity to show your love and lust in
a non-pressured way. If you know for a fact she’s too busy to answer her phone,
take a few minutes to think about what you’re going to say, otherwise you
better be ready if she doesn’t answer.
Tell her what you want to do to her later on or perhaps that you were thinking
of her and wanted to tell her how much you love her. It’s the thought that
counts.
Following Up with a
Call
If you’re still a single man and are still meeting women for
the first time, it’s important to follow up with a phone call in the right
manner. Call back too soon and you come off as desperate, call back too late
and you may be out of luck. The 48-Hour Rule is a universal one that seems to
work out fine for just about everybody. This gives her two days to forget about
you, and just when she gets back into her routine, she’ll receive a surprise
call from you and remember who you are, without feeling that you called too
soon.
The V-Method
Here’s a good tip: Next time you’re having sex with your
lover and she’s on top straddling you, make a peace sign with your hand and
keep the crease of the V on her clitoris, moving it up and down your shaft as
she moves up and down. This will provide extra stimulation for her, as well as
for you.
Erotic Poetry and Letters
There was a time when poetry ruled the expression of love
and lust. The power of words and language cannot be denied, and by sitting down
and writing something tasteful for your lover, you’re utilizing the freedom to
say what you want, how you want, with the option to erase and revise at your
convenience. Compose the ultimate letter outlining your deepest appreciation
and desires, and you’ll most likely receive a dashing response.
Indirect Stimulation
(Not Foreplay)
Indirect stimulation means stimulating parts of the vagina
and clitoris that are less blatant and seem to hold no value for arousal. The
fact is that the clitoris extends about an inch or so into the vagina at the
top. Although not as sensitive as the bud of the clitoris, the connecting fibers
that fuse to the vaginal walls can send more energy to the bud itself if they
are stimulated in the right manner. Press, massage and rub parts of her
genitals that you normally wouldn’t touch, and move slowly and consistently,
observing the results.
Your Married Friends
Have Single Friends
Another tip for the single guys: If you have some married
pals, chances are they hang out quite a bit with their wife’s friends, some of
which are bound to be healthy, single women. You might consider discussing this
with him if you’re still looking for love; he may have somebody for you.
Cooking is Sexy
To really impress a woman, you may consider cooking her a
fabulous meal. Anyone can follow a recipe, so no need to worry if you’re not
typically an avid culinary enthusiast. Tell her that day that you’ll be cooking
for her, and pick out a recipe that suits her tastes and interests. Make sure
you get everything you need, and follow your directions carefully. Top the meal
off with some wine and some candles, and you’re sure to get some attention
later in the evening.
Doggy style: Slow and
Short
When in doggy style position, a woman’s vagina contracts a
bit, making for a closer cluster of her vagina’s nerve endings. Because of
this, keeping your penetrative strokes short and slow can prove more
stimulating that long and fast. The true sensation for her is upon entering and
exiting the vagina, rather than deepness. Moreover, the slow rhythm stays on
the nerves longer than a fast stroke, sure to have her moaning in ecstasy.
Tongue Skill
The tongue is one of the strongest in the human body, and
one that is capable of over 1000 distinct shapes and movements. So, there’s a lot you can do with your tongue!
Whether you’re kissing or stimulating her down south, the movements of your
tongue can have a great effect on how she feels. Rolling and wave-like rhythms
can be a godsend for women, as well as slow, circular massages. The dart-in,
dart-out method just doesn’t work for sex.
Finding the G-Spot
About two inches inside the vagina against the front-side
wall, lies the G-spot of most women. Use your thumb and softly but firmly press
it around this area. Sometimes it’s a matter of trial and error, but you’ll
know that you’ve found it when she makes a noise or yelp that you rarely ever
hear. Once you know where it is, you can stimulate it in all kinds of ways.
Don’t just continue doing the same things you always do;
you’re sex life will grow uninteresting and stale, and maybe your relationship
as well. Try and start anew!
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